My name is Paul, I’m a therapist based in Wokingham. When meeting an individual client for the first time I give space to find out if the client has any questions they might want to explore.
I also ask the client if they have any requirements or goals they hope to gain from therapy. The first session is a good time to find out what might be going on in the client’s life, I am always conscious we are in our first session and the importance of not going to deep too soon.
All my sessions are completely confidential, I work in very quiet peaceful clinic based in Wokingham. Within these quiet counselling rooms, people can feel safe to explore their life issues with a therapist who has no connection with their outside lives. Within this healing can begin.
My sessions are 50 minutes long and can be weekly, fortnightly or on an ad hoc basis.
All sessions are fully confidential unless a client shares they will be of harm to themselves or others I work from comfortable quiet counselling rooms in Wokingham at The Wokingham Therapy Clinic.
Please contact me for more information or to book your first session using the following methods, or visit my contact page
What is Individual Counselling?
The term Individual Counselling refers to counselling that focuses on one person’s psychological needs. Individual Counselling is sometimes called one to one counselling, Psychotherapy, therapy or simply counselling. The professional offering this service is normally called a therapist or counsellor. The persons seeking counselling is usually referred to as the client
The aim of Individual Counselling is to provide a confidential environment in which a person can explore their psychological needs in a safe and open way.
Normally the person seeking counselling will have some idea about the issues they want to explore these can include: feelings of depression or anxiety, how to deal with loss through bereavement, divorce or redundancy, problems in relationships or recovery from addictions. Because of the scale of their problems or because their existing coping mechanisms no longer work many people need help to work through their feelings and develop new ways of coping.
The counsellor’s role is to help the client explore their problems in as much depth as possible to uncover the feelings that are causing difficulties.
Talking to a counsellor is different from talking to a family member or friend in a number of ways:
A counsellor has been trained in many aspects of human psychology they will have spent at least two years in education (diploma level) and have 400 hours of supervised therapeutic contact before they see clients independently.
As a trained professional they are able to listen objectively to their clients whereas a friend or family member may be to emotionally involved to be able to step back and allow the client to explore the nature of their problems.
A counsellor is bound by a set of professional ethics to provide a confidential and safe environment for their clients. This means that, unless there is a serious risk of harm to themselves or others, in which case a counsellor can contact health care and other professionals, what is said between counsellor and client is keep private between them.
A counsellor has access to a range of therapeutic tools and approaches that they can use to help the client, for example, they may use role play in a session to act out a difficult situation or they may use a specific counselling model to work with a client.
There are many different models of counselling approaches:
Counsellors usually have one that they prefer to use, however, it is normal for them to be skilled in a number of approches or models, so the client should always ask about what their approch is as they can feel very different; For example a Cognitive Behaioural Therapist works in an analtical way to challenge old paterns of thinking and behavior helping the client to develop new ways of thinking and behaving to deal with psychological problems, whereas a therapist skilled in Transactional Analysis will spend time exploring the messages and behavious received from parents and other care givers and, with the client, analyse how these messages affect the client now, the empasis is on change through the client developing an understanding of how they can change these ingrained messages.
Finally, please note that if you are seeking a Counsellor you will be able to find one that helps you but it may be that you see several before you find the one for you.